Supportive Presence
A Final Reflection as Pastoral Care Week Ends
Pastoral Care week ends today
but the work of pastoral care never ends.
Allow me to close this week with a formal prayer
focusing on the theme of healing.
God of all creation, you have so fashioned the world that it possesses the potential to repair its imperfections.
And, O Eternal One, you have fashioned humankind by endowing us as your partners, with the creative ability to help in the repairing. You gave us the insight to transform the simple herb into a healing balm for the body.
Help us as your caregivers to realize our responsibility to transform the herb of human compassion into a healing balm for the aching soul.
We, like many, are in need. We know the inner yearning for fulfillment, for purpose, for meaning in our lives. May we come to know that as we help others to feel fulfilled, we will find our own fulfillment.
And then, may we have the strength, the will, the dedication, and the commitment to do that for which we were created: to serve you and bring your reign of peace into our midst. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.30.09
Friday, October 30, 2009
Thursday, October 29, 2009
Daily Devotion - Thursday, October 29
Take Me Out to the Ballgame
World Series Week and Pastoral Care Week
Is it possible to create devotional reflections out of these two events?
“Teach me your way, O Lord. Lead me on a level path.”
-- A song from an ancient seeker
Thursday: Uncertainty
I’m writing this devotion about one week prior to the playing of the World Series. All I know at this point is that the Philadelphia Phillies will be in the series. Some of the things about which I am uncertain:
• Will the series be with the Yankees or the Angels?
• Will the series carry over into November?
• What town will game 5 be played in?
• Will the series go to five games?
• Will this be a “hitters” series or a “pitchers” series?
• Who is going to be this year’s Mr. October?
There is a lot of uncertainty today. This morning as I journeyed through the hospital I found similar tensions in the lives of patients and in the lives of staff. The uncertainties and the hopes weren’t about a baseball game; these feelings were about life and health. The emotional reactions of baseball fans in two great American cities mirror the emotions we deal with daily. Allow your spirit to do some work on the uncertainties and the hopes that are a part of your life. Try to imagine the necessary things for you to be filled with peace.
By the time you read this, the baseball season will be nearing the end. Hopefully you can sit back and let the commentators take you out to another game of the 2009 World Series.
Have a very good day.
Prayer: Holy God, be with me as I journey through my hopes and fears. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.29.09
World Series Week and Pastoral Care Week
Is it possible to create devotional reflections out of these two events?
“Teach me your way, O Lord. Lead me on a level path.”
-- A song from an ancient seeker
Thursday: Uncertainty
I’m writing this devotion about one week prior to the playing of the World Series. All I know at this point is that the Philadelphia Phillies will be in the series. Some of the things about which I am uncertain:
• Will the series be with the Yankees or the Angels?
• Will the series carry over into November?
• What town will game 5 be played in?
• Will the series go to five games?
• Will this be a “hitters” series or a “pitchers” series?
• Who is going to be this year’s Mr. October?
There is a lot of uncertainty today. This morning as I journeyed through the hospital I found similar tensions in the lives of patients and in the lives of staff. The uncertainties and the hopes weren’t about a baseball game; these feelings were about life and health. The emotional reactions of baseball fans in two great American cities mirror the emotions we deal with daily. Allow your spirit to do some work on the uncertainties and the hopes that are a part of your life. Try to imagine the necessary things for you to be filled with peace.
By the time you read this, the baseball season will be nearing the end. Hopefully you can sit back and let the commentators take you out to another game of the 2009 World Series.
Have a very good day.
Prayer: Holy God, be with me as I journey through my hopes and fears. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.29.09
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Daily Devotion - Wednesday, October 28
Take Me Out to the Ballgame
World Series Week and Pastoral Care Week
Is it possible to create devotional reflections out of these two events?
“Teach me your way, O Lord. Lead me on a level path.”
--A song from an ancient seeker
Wednesday: Baseball in Casa Blanca
Note: I have shared this devotion before and it always seems to be enjoyed.
You may recall a hurricane named Hurricane Mitch. Mitch settled in over Honduras and Nicaragua, totally devastating the mountainside villages like Casa Blanca, Nicaragua. I will always remember my time with the Nicaraguan people. Mitch decimated the village of Casa Blanca. I’d seen poverty, but none like Casa Blanca.
As the 17 Americans sat together assessing our first day, we were keenly aware that we had packed more for our ten-day mission than the entire community of 400 owned. We were really humbled. Two teenagers and their dad were part of the group. As we reflected, Danny’s eyes lit up. He asked for our first aid kit. He took a little ball he had brought from home and started wrapping rubber bands around it. Then he took some gauze and all of a sudden a baseball was starting to emerge. He then took some duct tape. The adults joined in and soon a very fine “baseball” was made.
He showed it to the teenagers. They knew baseball. Soon a couple of tree limbs were being formed into bats. On the final day of our work camp, friendships had grown to the point that it was time for a baseball game. The Nicaraguans of Casa Blanca were playing the North Americans from Indiana. What a fun day.
As you sit back and let the commentators take you out to the World Series ballgame, allow your spirit to do some thinking about ways you can bring healing to our brothers and sisters around the world. Who knows – maybe you’ll have an opportunity to play in a World Series. I truly enjoyed my World Series experience with the folks of Casa Blanca. Have a good day.
Prayer: Holy God, take me to the ballgames I need to play. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.28.09
World Series Week and Pastoral Care Week
Is it possible to create devotional reflections out of these two events?
“Teach me your way, O Lord. Lead me on a level path.”
--A song from an ancient seeker
Wednesday: Baseball in Casa Blanca
Note: I have shared this devotion before and it always seems to be enjoyed.
You may recall a hurricane named Hurricane Mitch. Mitch settled in over Honduras and Nicaragua, totally devastating the mountainside villages like Casa Blanca, Nicaragua. I will always remember my time with the Nicaraguan people. Mitch decimated the village of Casa Blanca. I’d seen poverty, but none like Casa Blanca.
As the 17 Americans sat together assessing our first day, we were keenly aware that we had packed more for our ten-day mission than the entire community of 400 owned. We were really humbled. Two teenagers and their dad were part of the group. As we reflected, Danny’s eyes lit up. He asked for our first aid kit. He took a little ball he had brought from home and started wrapping rubber bands around it. Then he took some gauze and all of a sudden a baseball was starting to emerge. He then took some duct tape. The adults joined in and soon a very fine “baseball” was made.
He showed it to the teenagers. They knew baseball. Soon a couple of tree limbs were being formed into bats. On the final day of our work camp, friendships had grown to the point that it was time for a baseball game. The Nicaraguans of Casa Blanca were playing the North Americans from Indiana. What a fun day.
As you sit back and let the commentators take you out to the World Series ballgame, allow your spirit to do some thinking about ways you can bring healing to our brothers and sisters around the world. Who knows – maybe you’ll have an opportunity to play in a World Series. I truly enjoyed my World Series experience with the folks of Casa Blanca. Have a good day.
Prayer: Holy God, take me to the ballgames I need to play. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.28.09
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Daily Devotion - Tuesday, October 27
Take Me Out to the Ballgame
World Series Week and Pastoral Care Week
Is it possible to create devotional reflections out of these two events?
“Teach me your way, O Lord. Lead me on a level path.”
--A song from an ancient seeker
Tuesday: Where is the ballgame?
As I write this devotion (October 23), the American League champion hasn’t been determined. We do not know the schedule for the World Series; it all depends on how the ALCS mystery is solved. By the time you read this devotion that mystery will be solved, but at this very moment, no one knows where.
In some ways the question “where is the ballgame?” can be reframed as we think about “Supportive Presence,” the theme for Pastoral Care Week 2009. Across the country and around the world, many of my colleagues in pastoral care continually ask, “Where is the best place for me to place my supportive presence?” Sometimes that place is directly with the patient, other times it is with the family, other times it is with the staff.
I believe there is healing for everything. Sometimes we need to examine medical questions, sometimes we need to examine psychological questions, sometimes we need to examine spiritual questions, and sometimes we need to have a multi-disciplinary approach to healing. As caregivers learn to be a supportive presence, good decisions can and will be made in the best interests of the patient.
As you sit back and let the commentators take you out to the World Series ballgame (wherever it is), allow your spirit to do some work as you contemplate what it means to be a supportive presence.
Have a very good day.
Prayer: Holy God, take me to the ballgames I need to play. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.27.09
World Series Week and Pastoral Care Week
Is it possible to create devotional reflections out of these two events?
“Teach me your way, O Lord. Lead me on a level path.”
--A song from an ancient seeker
Tuesday: Where is the ballgame?
As I write this devotion (October 23), the American League champion hasn’t been determined. We do not know the schedule for the World Series; it all depends on how the ALCS mystery is solved. By the time you read this devotion that mystery will be solved, but at this very moment, no one knows where.
In some ways the question “where is the ballgame?” can be reframed as we think about “Supportive Presence,” the theme for Pastoral Care Week 2009. Across the country and around the world, many of my colleagues in pastoral care continually ask, “Where is the best place for me to place my supportive presence?” Sometimes that place is directly with the patient, other times it is with the family, other times it is with the staff.
I believe there is healing for everything. Sometimes we need to examine medical questions, sometimes we need to examine psychological questions, sometimes we need to examine spiritual questions, and sometimes we need to have a multi-disciplinary approach to healing. As caregivers learn to be a supportive presence, good decisions can and will be made in the best interests of the patient.
As you sit back and let the commentators take you out to the World Series ballgame (wherever it is), allow your spirit to do some work as you contemplate what it means to be a supportive presence.
Have a very good day.
Prayer: Holy God, take me to the ballgames I need to play. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.27.09
Monday, October 26, 2009
Daily Devotion - Monday, October 26
Take Me Out to the Ballgame
WOW!! World Series Week and Pastoral Care Week at the same time?
Is it possible to create devotional reflections out of these two events?
Let’s see what the week brings.
“Teach me your way, O Lord. Lead me on a level path.”
--A song from an ancient seeker
Monday: The Phillies Are In The Series AGAIN!
I watched with great interest the other night as the Philadelphia Phillies clinched their berth in this year's World Series. I have some pretty strong Pennsylvania ties and enjoyed traveling to Philly to watch the “sillies”, as they were called at the time. What has happened to this team who, I believe, has lost more games than any team in baseball history (they have been around a long time)? Let me offer an observation.
In the pennant clinching game the Phillies star pitcher was having a pretty shaky outing. The manager of the team took him out of the game earlier than hoped for. Commentators talked about the weakness of the bullpen pitchers and questioned if Philly could win the game. Yet, the relief pitchers each came in and performed their job almost flawlessly. They provided a superb supportive presence for their pitching ace.
This year the theme of Pastoral Care week is “Supportive Presence.” The world is quite torn, fractured by earthquake, tsunami and hurricane disasters; the world is quite chaotic, divided by conflicting political, economic and religious beliefs and values. People are crying out for a supportive presence to help carry them through and bring them some relief. People are longing for a level playing field where supportive presence can guide them toward a better place. It seems that the first half of today’s song has an answer. I can’t help but wonder if we are willing to let our spirits be humbled to the point that we can be taught.
So, as you sit back and let the commentators take you out to the ballgame, allow your spirit to do some work imagining what supportive presence you can bring to those around you. Go Phillies!
Looking forward to a great week.
Prayer: Holy God, fill me with quietness. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.26.09
WOW!! World Series Week and Pastoral Care Week at the same time?
Is it possible to create devotional reflections out of these two events?
Let’s see what the week brings.
“Teach me your way, O Lord. Lead me on a level path.”
--A song from an ancient seeker
Monday: The Phillies Are In The Series AGAIN!
I watched with great interest the other night as the Philadelphia Phillies clinched their berth in this year's World Series. I have some pretty strong Pennsylvania ties and enjoyed traveling to Philly to watch the “sillies”, as they were called at the time. What has happened to this team who, I believe, has lost more games than any team in baseball history (they have been around a long time)? Let me offer an observation.
In the pennant clinching game the Phillies star pitcher was having a pretty shaky outing. The manager of the team took him out of the game earlier than hoped for. Commentators talked about the weakness of the bullpen pitchers and questioned if Philly could win the game. Yet, the relief pitchers each came in and performed their job almost flawlessly. They provided a superb supportive presence for their pitching ace.
This year the theme of Pastoral Care week is “Supportive Presence.” The world is quite torn, fractured by earthquake, tsunami and hurricane disasters; the world is quite chaotic, divided by conflicting political, economic and religious beliefs and values. People are crying out for a supportive presence to help carry them through and bring them some relief. People are longing for a level playing field where supportive presence can guide them toward a better place. It seems that the first half of today’s song has an answer. I can’t help but wonder if we are willing to let our spirits be humbled to the point that we can be taught.
So, as you sit back and let the commentators take you out to the ballgame, allow your spirit to do some work imagining what supportive presence you can bring to those around you. Go Phillies!
Looking forward to a great week.
Prayer: Holy God, fill me with quietness. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.26.09
Friday, October 23, 2009
Daily Devotion - Friday, October 23
About Prayer
Focusing on continued development of spiritual awareness.
“Create in me a clean heart, O God.”
--A song from an ancient seeker
Friday: An Open-Eyed Prayer
The patient’s condition had been deteriorating for several days and all the staff was less than optimistic about recovery of health; in fact, the feeling was pretty certain that death might occur during this hospitalization. With internal systems shutting down, one of the patient’s doctors finished his assessment. I had a feeling that it was best to quietly observe the MD as he came to the nursing station and pulled the chart. I’ve learned to trust my feelings and so I observed without a word.
The doctor opened the chart, pulled out his pen and then sat at the desk for at least 10 minutes, it could have been more. He gazed into space, fixing his eyes on some point and just sat there. Quietly he sat there. No one disturbed him as he sat there. With elbow resting on the table and chin resting in the palm of his hand (remember the artwork entitled “The Thinker”) he sat there.
And then there was a sigh. Some directives were written for care. The chart was authoritatively closed. Not a word was said.
I caught up with the doctor in the hallway and he explained what all was involved in the 10 minute time of contemplation. Slowly recovery occurred. The patient did go home and enjoy a measure of quality for a short time. Death did occur eventually. I observed prayer that day. With eyes opened and spirit ready to receive, a doctor witnessed a mighty power that is very much alive in our world.
I pray that you will have a good day and a wonderful weekend.
Prayer: Holy God, fill me with quietness. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.23.09
Focusing on continued development of spiritual awareness.
“Create in me a clean heart, O God.”
--A song from an ancient seeker
Friday: An Open-Eyed Prayer
The patient’s condition had been deteriorating for several days and all the staff was less than optimistic about recovery of health; in fact, the feeling was pretty certain that death might occur during this hospitalization. With internal systems shutting down, one of the patient’s doctors finished his assessment. I had a feeling that it was best to quietly observe the MD as he came to the nursing station and pulled the chart. I’ve learned to trust my feelings and so I observed without a word.
The doctor opened the chart, pulled out his pen and then sat at the desk for at least 10 minutes, it could have been more. He gazed into space, fixing his eyes on some point and just sat there. Quietly he sat there. No one disturbed him as he sat there. With elbow resting on the table and chin resting in the palm of his hand (remember the artwork entitled “The Thinker”) he sat there.
And then there was a sigh. Some directives were written for care. The chart was authoritatively closed. Not a word was said.
I caught up with the doctor in the hallway and he explained what all was involved in the 10 minute time of contemplation. Slowly recovery occurred. The patient did go home and enjoy a measure of quality for a short time. Death did occur eventually. I observed prayer that day. With eyes opened and spirit ready to receive, a doctor witnessed a mighty power that is very much alive in our world.
I pray that you will have a good day and a wonderful weekend.
Prayer: Holy God, fill me with quietness. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.23.09
Thursday, October 22, 2009
Daily Devotion - Thursday, October 22
Questions and Answers
A quest for deepened spiritual awareness.
“Create in me a clean heart, O God.”
--A song from an ancient seeker
Thursday: Letting Questions Live
Have you taken the time to examine the purpose behind most any question you ask of another person? Generally speaking, we ask because we are expecting an answer. If not an answer, then a reasonable explanation; if not a reasonable explanation then hopefully a meaningful dialogue.
Because of the way we are trained in the educational arena, we hear a question and react with an answer. Often our answers are given based on personal experience. Often our personal experience is simply a repetition of a previous personal experience. Therefore we give answers to questions without truly understanding the present moment.
It seems to me that the best thing in life is the question, far more than the answer. The question needs to be honored as the “living thing.” The wise person is generally not the one with the answer. The wise person is the person who is sensitive to the moment; is sensitive to the other person’s needs; and is uninfluenced by any residue from the experience of the past.
One of the most valuable traits we can develop is the trait of simply being present with another person, allowing their questions to be honored more than answered. To let the question live is a very important way of letting the other person know they are loved.
I pray that you will have a good day.
Prayer: Holy God, fill me with quietness, allowing questions to live. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.22.09
A quest for deepened spiritual awareness.
“Create in me a clean heart, O God.”
--A song from an ancient seeker
Thursday: Letting Questions Live
Have you taken the time to examine the purpose behind most any question you ask of another person? Generally speaking, we ask because we are expecting an answer. If not an answer, then a reasonable explanation; if not a reasonable explanation then hopefully a meaningful dialogue.
Because of the way we are trained in the educational arena, we hear a question and react with an answer. Often our answers are given based on personal experience. Often our personal experience is simply a repetition of a previous personal experience. Therefore we give answers to questions without truly understanding the present moment.
It seems to me that the best thing in life is the question, far more than the answer. The question needs to be honored as the “living thing.” The wise person is generally not the one with the answer. The wise person is the person who is sensitive to the moment; is sensitive to the other person’s needs; and is uninfluenced by any residue from the experience of the past.
One of the most valuable traits we can develop is the trait of simply being present with another person, allowing their questions to be honored more than answered. To let the question live is a very important way of letting the other person know they are loved.
I pray that you will have a good day.
Prayer: Holy God, fill me with quietness, allowing questions to live. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.22.09
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Daily Devotion - Wednesday, October 21
Mystery
Developing deepened spiritual awareness.
“Create in me a clean heart, O God.”
--A song from an ancient seeker
Wednesday: Absenteeism Present-ness
Over the last few weeks a number of difficult situations have confronted a number of my friends, fellow associates and – to be quite honest – me. Today I would like to share the following story with you.
“The great Karl Rahner wrote to a young German drug addict who had asked him for help. The addict had written, ‘You theologians talk about God, but how could this God be relevant in my life? How could this God get me off drugs?’ Rahner replied, ‘I must confess to you in all honesty that for me God is and has always been absolute mystery. I do not understand what God is; no one can. We have imitations, inklings; we make faltering, inadequate attempts to put mystery into words. But there is NO word for it, no sentence for it.’ He added these words later, ‘The task of the theologian is to explain everything through God and to explain God as unexplainable.’”
God is unexplainable mystery. What I am learning is this:
Be aware. Watch; observe what is going on within you and around you. It is so easy to be imprisoned by old sayings. Being aware helps us break out of rigid patterns we have developed out of the thoughts and words we have imposed on God.
Recently I shared with one of my friends that God could best be described as “Absenteeism Present-ness.” I like that term for mystery.
I pray that you will have a good day.
Prayer: Holy God, purify me again today. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.21.09
Developing deepened spiritual awareness.
“Create in me a clean heart, O God.”
--A song from an ancient seeker
Wednesday: Absenteeism Present-ness
Over the last few weeks a number of difficult situations have confronted a number of my friends, fellow associates and – to be quite honest – me. Today I would like to share the following story with you.
“The great Karl Rahner wrote to a young German drug addict who had asked him for help. The addict had written, ‘You theologians talk about God, but how could this God be relevant in my life? How could this God get me off drugs?’ Rahner replied, ‘I must confess to you in all honesty that for me God is and has always been absolute mystery. I do not understand what God is; no one can. We have imitations, inklings; we make faltering, inadequate attempts to put mystery into words. But there is NO word for it, no sentence for it.’ He added these words later, ‘The task of the theologian is to explain everything through God and to explain God as unexplainable.’”
God is unexplainable mystery. What I am learning is this:
Be aware. Watch; observe what is going on within you and around you. It is so easy to be imprisoned by old sayings. Being aware helps us break out of rigid patterns we have developed out of the thoughts and words we have imposed on God.
Recently I shared with one of my friends that God could best be described as “Absenteeism Present-ness.” I like that term for mystery.
I pray that you will have a good day.
Prayer: Holy God, purify me again today. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.21.09
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Daily Devotion - Tuesday, October 20
An Invitation To Stillness
Reflecting on the opportunities to develop spiritual awareness.
“Create in me a clean heart, O God.”
--A song from an ancient seeker
Tuesday: Taking time through a simple prayer
A few years ago I discovered this simple prayer, authored by David Whyte. Take some time with it today. Read it; then be still and after a time of meditation, read it again. Repeat this three times today. It is helping me with my awareness of the Holy.
“Enough. These few words are enough.
If not these words, this breath.
If not this breath, this sitting here.
This opening to the life
We have refused
Again and again
Until now.
Until now.”
I pray that you will have a good day.
Prayer: Teach me stillness. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.20.09
Reflecting on the opportunities to develop spiritual awareness.
“Create in me a clean heart, O God.”
--A song from an ancient seeker
Tuesday: Taking time through a simple prayer
A few years ago I discovered this simple prayer, authored by David Whyte. Take some time with it today. Read it; then be still and after a time of meditation, read it again. Repeat this three times today. It is helping me with my awareness of the Holy.
“Enough. These few words are enough.
If not these words, this breath.
If not this breath, this sitting here.
This opening to the life
We have refused
Again and again
Until now.
Until now.”
I pray that you will have a good day.
Prayer: Teach me stillness. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.20.09
Monday, October 19, 2009
Daily Devotion - Monday, October 19
Reflections on a Weekend
Thoughts for continued development of your spiritual awareness.
“Create in me a clean heart, O God.”
--A song from an ancient seeker
Monday: Taking the time
This weekend was spent with family and friends enjoying the colorful rhythm of fall. Today I am spending a part of my “off” day getting away with a hospital volunteer and enjoying a trek through his forest. I need some time for re-creation. The beauty of fall colors and towering evergreens painting the rolling countryside will provide an excellent setting for reflection. I am going to take my time today, pausing to really enjoy the cleansing air. One of the better ways I can grow in my spiritual awareness is when I take opportunities to reflect on seasonal changes in the rhythms of nature.
This “away from the routine” time allows me to do some “soul work”. The question I am dealing with as I prepare to return to the workplace is this:
How can I better balance the demands of daily routine
so that every minute feels like a dance with the Divine?
I realize that this question is not just a personal one for me. The past years of listening to the heartsongs of others assures me that the question is a worthy one for each of us. I invite you to join me in the process and I look forward to this week. I pray that you will have a good week.
Prayer: Holy God, distract me from my busy-ness so that I can fully appreciate your presence. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.19.09
Thoughts for continued development of your spiritual awareness.
“Create in me a clean heart, O God.”
--A song from an ancient seeker
Monday: Taking the time
This weekend was spent with family and friends enjoying the colorful rhythm of fall. Today I am spending a part of my “off” day getting away with a hospital volunteer and enjoying a trek through his forest. I need some time for re-creation. The beauty of fall colors and towering evergreens painting the rolling countryside will provide an excellent setting for reflection. I am going to take my time today, pausing to really enjoy the cleansing air. One of the better ways I can grow in my spiritual awareness is when I take opportunities to reflect on seasonal changes in the rhythms of nature.
This “away from the routine” time allows me to do some “soul work”. The question I am dealing with as I prepare to return to the workplace is this:
How can I better balance the demands of daily routine
so that every minute feels like a dance with the Divine?
I realize that this question is not just a personal one for me. The past years of listening to the heartsongs of others assures me that the question is a worthy one for each of us. I invite you to join me in the process and I look forward to this week. I pray that you will have a good week.
Prayer: Holy God, distract me from my busy-ness so that I can fully appreciate your presence. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.19.09
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Daily Devotion - Friday, October 16
Reflections on Wisdom
Moments with Leo Buscaglia, Part 5
The week is coming to an end and it is time for one more quote from Leo Buscaglia, author and speaker. He was most widely known for his emphasis on helping people reconnect with their disconnected emotional self. This week we have had a variety of quotes. We finish these “Moments with Leo Buscaglia” with a fun quote for your reflection and meditation.
"I still get wildly enthusiastic about little things... I play with leaves. I skip down the street and run against the wind."
My only additional comment would be: It's Friday, enjoy playing in the leaves this weekend.
--Ben Keckler
10.16.09
Moments with Leo Buscaglia, Part 5
The week is coming to an end and it is time for one more quote from Leo Buscaglia, author and speaker. He was most widely known for his emphasis on helping people reconnect with their disconnected emotional self. This week we have had a variety of quotes. We finish these “Moments with Leo Buscaglia” with a fun quote for your reflection and meditation.
"I still get wildly enthusiastic about little things... I play with leaves. I skip down the street and run against the wind."
My only additional comment would be: It's Friday, enjoy playing in the leaves this weekend.
--Ben Keckler
10.16.09
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Daily Devotion - Thursday, October 15
Reflections on Wisdom
Moments with Leo Buscaglia, Part 4
It’s Thursday and the fourth day of simple, yet profound, quotes from Leo Buscaglia, an internationally known author and speaker who died a little over a decade ago. He was most widely known for his emphasis on helping people reconnect with their disconnected emotional self. His books are well known and at one time five of his books were on the New York Times best seller list – simultaneously!
Today’s quote for your reflection and meditation:
"I've always thought that people need to feel good about themselves and I see my role as offering support to them, to provide some light along the way."
My only additional line would be: Enjoy providing a supportive presence for others.
--Ben Keckler
10.15.09
Moments with Leo Buscaglia, Part 4
It’s Thursday and the fourth day of simple, yet profound, quotes from Leo Buscaglia, an internationally known author and speaker who died a little over a decade ago. He was most widely known for his emphasis on helping people reconnect with their disconnected emotional self. His books are well known and at one time five of his books were on the New York Times best seller list – simultaneously!
Today’s quote for your reflection and meditation:
"I've always thought that people need to feel good about themselves and I see my role as offering support to them, to provide some light along the way."
My only additional line would be: Enjoy providing a supportive presence for others.
--Ben Keckler
10.15.09
Daily Devotion - Wednesday, October 14
Reflections on Wisdom
Moments with Leo Buscaglia, Part 3
We continue our Leo Buscaglia week. His emphasis was on helping people reconnect with their disconnected emotional self. His books are still used and treasured today. In our bereavement groups at the hospital, we use The Fall of Freddie the Leaf as a resource. Here is today’s Buscaglia quote for your reflection and meditation.
"Change is the end result of all true learning."
I would only add: Enjoy being different tomorrow because you lived well today.
--Ben Keckler
10.14.09
Moments with Leo Buscaglia, Part 3
We continue our Leo Buscaglia week. His emphasis was on helping people reconnect with their disconnected emotional self. His books are still used and treasured today. In our bereavement groups at the hospital, we use The Fall of Freddie the Leaf as a resource. Here is today’s Buscaglia quote for your reflection and meditation.
"Change is the end result of all true learning."
I would only add: Enjoy being different tomorrow because you lived well today.
--Ben Keckler
10.14.09
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Daily Devotion - Tuesday, October 13
Reflections on Wisdom
Moments with Leo Buscaglia, Part 2
Leo Buscaglia, an internationally known author and speaker, died a little over a decade ago. While he was a highly educated person (he earned three degrees from the University of Southern California) he was most widely known for his emphasis on helping people reconnect with their disconnected emotional self. Some years ago, he had five books on the New York Times best seller list simultaneously. I was privileged to have a professor who studied with Dr. Buscaglia and who introduced me to his work. One of his books, The Fall of Freddie the Leaf, is an annual resource book for our bereavement groups at the hospital.
This week I am sharing quotes from Buscaglia for your reflection and meditation.
"Life lived for tomorrow will always be just a day away from being realized."
My only additional comment is: enjoy claiming what you've been waiting for!
--Ben Keckler
10.13.09
Moments with Leo Buscaglia, Part 2
Leo Buscaglia, an internationally known author and speaker, died a little over a decade ago. While he was a highly educated person (he earned three degrees from the University of Southern California) he was most widely known for his emphasis on helping people reconnect with their disconnected emotional self. Some years ago, he had five books on the New York Times best seller list simultaneously. I was privileged to have a professor who studied with Dr. Buscaglia and who introduced me to his work. One of his books, The Fall of Freddie the Leaf, is an annual resource book for our bereavement groups at the hospital.
This week I am sharing quotes from Buscaglia for your reflection and meditation.
"Life lived for tomorrow will always be just a day away from being realized."
My only additional comment is: enjoy claiming what you've been waiting for!
--Ben Keckler
10.13.09
Monday, October 12, 2009
Daily Devotion - Monday, October 12
Reflections on Wisdom
Moments with Leo Buscaglia, Part 1
Leo Buscaglia, an internationally known author and speaker, died a little over a decade ago. While he was a highly educated person (he earned three degrees from the University of Southern California) he was most widely known for his emphasis on helping people reconnect with their disconnected emotional self. Some years ago, he had five books on the New York Times best seller list simultaneously. I was privileged to have a professor who studied with Dr. Buscaglia and who introduced me to his work. One of his books, The Fall of Freddie the Leaf, is an annual resource book for the bereavement groups here at the hospital. This week I am sharing quotes from Buscaglia for your reflection and meditation.
"Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around."
I would only add this my friends: take the risk of acting in the way Buscaglia suggests. Have a wonderful beginning to your week.
--Ben Keckler
10.12.09
Moments with Leo Buscaglia, Part 1
Leo Buscaglia, an internationally known author and speaker, died a little over a decade ago. While he was a highly educated person (he earned three degrees from the University of Southern California) he was most widely known for his emphasis on helping people reconnect with their disconnected emotional self. Some years ago, he had five books on the New York Times best seller list simultaneously. I was privileged to have a professor who studied with Dr. Buscaglia and who introduced me to his work. One of his books, The Fall of Freddie the Leaf, is an annual resource book for the bereavement groups here at the hospital. This week I am sharing quotes from Buscaglia for your reflection and meditation.
"Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around."
I would only add this my friends: take the risk of acting in the way Buscaglia suggests. Have a wonderful beginning to your week.
--Ben Keckler
10.12.09
Thursday, October 8, 2009
Daily Devotion - Friday, October 9
Prayer
“God put a new song in my mouth,
a song of praise to our God.”
I'd like to conclude this week's devotions with this prayer by Roberta Porter. May you have a weekend filled with many creative expressions of love, peace and joy.
A Prayer for Becoming
by Roberta Porter
“Lord,
may I live each day
creatively, in you,
beginning with thanks for life itself,
for life in you.
"May I find my gifts, knowing
in the searching I am becoming
who you created me to be.
"May I use these gifts
to serve each task
as serving you, seeing in the work
and in others
your face, your light.
"And, at the end of the day
may I rest in your grace,
always grateful.
Amen.”
--Ben Keckler
10.09.09
“God put a new song in my mouth,
a song of praise to our God.”
I'd like to conclude this week's devotions with this prayer by Roberta Porter. May you have a weekend filled with many creative expressions of love, peace and joy.
A Prayer for Becoming
by Roberta Porter
“Lord,
may I live each day
creatively, in you,
beginning with thanks for life itself,
for life in you.
"May I find my gifts, knowing
in the searching I am becoming
who you created me to be.
"May I use these gifts
to serve each task
as serving you, seeing in the work
and in others
your face, your light.
"And, at the end of the day
may I rest in your grace,
always grateful.
Amen.”
--Ben Keckler
10.09.09
Daily Devotion - Thursday, October 8
Lesson from a Ladybug
“Therefore do not worry about tomorrow,
for tomorrow will worry about itself.”
--Jesus (as remembered by Matthew 6:34)
Amazing, absolutely amazing! This simple sentence expresses the feeling I had throughout my drive to work one morning several years ago. Here is a remarkable story that I’ll call “A Lady Bug and A Commute.”
While backing the car out of the driveway, a ladybug landed in the middle of the windshield. As the car started forward, the ladybug quit walking and stayed very still. Each time the car stopped for a traffic light the ladybug would continue its trek across the driver’s side of the windshield. The commute took us onto the interstate, still the ladybug held on. After several miles with cars and trucks passing on either side, “we” exited onto Route 36. My traveling companion stayed with me until she flew away on her terms while we were stopped at a traffic light.
The thought I’m dwelling on: “If that little ladybug was protected until it was time to fly, won’t I be protected until it is time to fly?” The answer may vary depending on the situation, but I think I’ve got enough clarity for now.
--Ben Keckler
10.08.09
“Therefore do not worry about tomorrow,
for tomorrow will worry about itself.”
--Jesus (as remembered by Matthew 6:34)
Amazing, absolutely amazing! This simple sentence expresses the feeling I had throughout my drive to work one morning several years ago. Here is a remarkable story that I’ll call “A Lady Bug and A Commute.”
While backing the car out of the driveway, a ladybug landed in the middle of the windshield. As the car started forward, the ladybug quit walking and stayed very still. Each time the car stopped for a traffic light the ladybug would continue its trek across the driver’s side of the windshield. The commute took us onto the interstate, still the ladybug held on. After several miles with cars and trucks passing on either side, “we” exited onto Route 36. My traveling companion stayed with me until she flew away on her terms while we were stopped at a traffic light.
The thought I’m dwelling on: “If that little ladybug was protected until it was time to fly, won’t I be protected until it is time to fly?” The answer may vary depending on the situation, but I think I’ve got enough clarity for now.
--Ben Keckler
10.08.09
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
Daily Devotion - Tuesday, October 6
Friendships
“Do not forsake your friend….”
--A wisdom phrase (Proverbs 27:10)
One of the joys of fall that happens across our land is found at tailgate parties. Some are on Friday evening – high school events; some are on Saturday – college events; and some are on Sunday – professional events.
Recently we stayed home with all the grandchildren while the parents went to tailgate prior to the Purdue/Notre Dame game. The great part of the weekend was that we were able to enjoy a day with four children we love while four older young adults (whom we also enjoy and love) got to spend some time together with their friends. It was really super to spend time with people we all enjoy. Friendship is very special!
In just a couple of days some of our very special friends will arrive from Southern Indiana. Rather than tailgate, we will enjoy the gift of friendship with a backyard barbeque. Honoring the gift of friendship is important. It takes commitment and energy, but the feeling in the heart at the conclusion of a great time is difficult to match. Enjoy the friends you have, expand your circle of friends and you will be surrounded by one of life’s great treasures.
Prayer: Thank you God for the gift of friendship. Accept my gratitude today. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.06.09
“Do not forsake your friend….”
--A wisdom phrase (Proverbs 27:10)
One of the joys of fall that happens across our land is found at tailgate parties. Some are on Friday evening – high school events; some are on Saturday – college events; and some are on Sunday – professional events.
Recently we stayed home with all the grandchildren while the parents went to tailgate prior to the Purdue/Notre Dame game. The great part of the weekend was that we were able to enjoy a day with four children we love while four older young adults (whom we also enjoy and love) got to spend some time together with their friends. It was really super to spend time with people we all enjoy. Friendship is very special!
In just a couple of days some of our very special friends will arrive from Southern Indiana. Rather than tailgate, we will enjoy the gift of friendship with a backyard barbeque. Honoring the gift of friendship is important. It takes commitment and energy, but the feeling in the heart at the conclusion of a great time is difficult to match. Enjoy the friends you have, expand your circle of friends and you will be surrounded by one of life’s great treasures.
Prayer: Thank you God for the gift of friendship. Accept my gratitude today. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.06.09
Monday, October 5, 2009
Daily Devotion - Monday, October 5
Remembering
“For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith,
I have not stopped giving thanks for you,
remembering you in my prayers.”
--A follower (Ephesians 1: 15)
In 1988 President Ronald Reagan officially proclaimed October as National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month. Every other week we have a group of moms and dads who gather to work on their grief, a grief that came to them when they were expecting a life. Some of the people in that group have attended for several years and they, along with some volunteers from our hospital, hosted our 4th Annual Walk to Remember. The gathering was the largest ever!
What a privilege to work and live with people who care about others! Take time today to think about persons who have lost a child or children—the loss may be a perinatal loss or it may be a child of any age. Offer a prayer or give them a call. They can teach us a great deal about how to maintain faith in the future.
I wish we didn’t have to have a month set aside for remembering people who have lost children, it isn’t the way life is to be ordered. But, we NEED to set aside this month and remember. I will be remembering the 150 people who walked on Saturday and taught me a bit more about faith. I thank God for them and pray they can have a measure of peace in their lives.
--Ben Keckler
10.05.09
“For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith,
I have not stopped giving thanks for you,
remembering you in my prayers.”
--A follower (Ephesians 1: 15)
In 1988 President Ronald Reagan officially proclaimed October as National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month. Every other week we have a group of moms and dads who gather to work on their grief, a grief that came to them when they were expecting a life. Some of the people in that group have attended for several years and they, along with some volunteers from our hospital, hosted our 4th Annual Walk to Remember. The gathering was the largest ever!
What a privilege to work and live with people who care about others! Take time today to think about persons who have lost a child or children—the loss may be a perinatal loss or it may be a child of any age. Offer a prayer or give them a call. They can teach us a great deal about how to maintain faith in the future.
I wish we didn’t have to have a month set aside for remembering people who have lost children, it isn’t the way life is to be ordered. But, we NEED to set aside this month and remember. I will be remembering the 150 people who walked on Saturday and taught me a bit more about faith. I thank God for them and pray they can have a measure of peace in their lives.
--Ben Keckler
10.05.09
Friday, October 2, 2009
Daily Devotion - Friday, October 2
Prayer of St. Francis
“The Lord is my light and my salvation—whom shall I fear?
I will sing and make music to the Lord my God.”
--Psalm 27, selected verses
Excerpts from a prayer of St. Francis as he spent time in solitude:
“You are holy, Lord, you are the only God
And all your works are wondrous.
You are strong
You are great,
You are most high.
You, most holy, are the Lord of heaven and earth!
You are the mystery, the Lord God above all gods.
You are good,
You are all good,
You are the highest good.
Lord of all, God of all, ever living and ever true.
You are the fire of love itself.
You are our
Wisdom, humility, patience, beauty, meekness, security, inner peace and our joy.
Great and wonderful Lord!
You are God who lives forever, offering me life!”
I pray that you will have a blessed weekend, filled with good.
--Ben Keckler
10.02.09
“The Lord is my light and my salvation—whom shall I fear?
I will sing and make music to the Lord my God.”
--Psalm 27, selected verses
Excerpts from a prayer of St. Francis as he spent time in solitude:
“You are holy, Lord, you are the only God
And all your works are wondrous.
You are strong
You are great,
You are most high.
You, most holy, are the Lord of heaven and earth!
You are the mystery, the Lord God above all gods.
You are good,
You are all good,
You are the highest good.
Lord of all, God of all, ever living and ever true.
You are the fire of love itself.
You are our
Wisdom, humility, patience, beauty, meekness, security, inner peace and our joy.
Great and wonderful Lord!
You are God who lives forever, offering me life!”
I pray that you will have a blessed weekend, filled with good.
--Ben Keckler
10.02.09
Thursday, October 1, 2009
Daily Devotion - Thursday, October 1
In Solitude Remembering Others
“Be still and know that I am God;
I will be exalted among the nations,
I will be exalted in the earth.”
--Psalm 46: 10
This whole idea of solitude and stillness can be a little overdone, can’t it? I don’t think so! Generally in our solitude it is important to focus on the “centering of our own being” and to concentrate on the stirrings within our own soul. To be anchored within is important—when we are anchored we don’t drift as we work on the things that need to be done.
Take time to center yourself today. When centered, remember those who are in difficult places:
Leaders attempting to make difficult decisions, acting in the best interests of all.
Struggling folks who are trying to prepare for winter amid their present harsh realities.
People who woke up today and already have discovered that their anticipated reality for the day has been demolished. People whose world is upside down.
May your time of solitude be spent doing what you need to do. Have a good day.
A prayer: God, help me in my relative ease to always remember those who are uneasy. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.01.09
“Be still and know that I am God;
I will be exalted among the nations,
I will be exalted in the earth.”
--Psalm 46: 10
This whole idea of solitude and stillness can be a little overdone, can’t it? I don’t think so! Generally in our solitude it is important to focus on the “centering of our own being” and to concentrate on the stirrings within our own soul. To be anchored within is important—when we are anchored we don’t drift as we work on the things that need to be done.
Take time to center yourself today. When centered, remember those who are in difficult places:
Leaders attempting to make difficult decisions, acting in the best interests of all.
Struggling folks who are trying to prepare for winter amid their present harsh realities.
People who woke up today and already have discovered that their anticipated reality for the day has been demolished. People whose world is upside down.
May your time of solitude be spent doing what you need to do. Have a good day.
A prayer: God, help me in my relative ease to always remember those who are uneasy. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
10.01.09
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