Discovery or Rediscovery?
“Unless you change and become like children,
you will never understand the kingdom of God.”
From Matthew’s gospel (18:3)
Trying to find God can be a major challenge. Trying to believe in divine presence and power can be most difficult, especially when the wounds of life are so strong and overpowering. Going back to those formative years of our childhood, when a complex world didn’t seem so intimidating, can help. Macrina Wiederkehr (A Tree Full of Angels, page 63) shares her thoughts with us now:
What pains me most these days
Is my inability to reach back into my years and touch the child I was.
And yet,
Loving, living, stirring deep within my soul
That child lives on.
There are days when
My adult ways turn tasteless in my mouth
And the child of long ago starts pressing on my soul.
On days like that
I long to touch that child again
And let her take me by the hand and lead me down a path
That has a heart and show me all the things that
I’ve stopped seeing because I’ve grown too tall.
--Ben Keckler
06.30.08
Monday, June 30, 2008
Friday, June 27, 2008
Daily Devotions - Friday, June 27
A Prayer from Mother Teresa
“A person can do nothing better than to eat and drink
and find great satisfaction in their work.
This too, I see, is from the hand of God for without him who can find enjoyment.”
--A wisdom saying Ecclesiastes
Chapter 2:24, 25
One of the daily prayers that Mother Teresa used as she delivered her care to children in India seems most appropriate for the work we do in this place.
Dearest Lord, may I see you today and every day in the person of your sick, and, while nursing them, minister unto you. Though you hide yourself behind the unattractive disguise of the irritable, the exacting and the unreasonable, may I be still long enough to recognize you in them…. Sweetest Lord, make me appreciative of the dignity of my vocation and it’s many responsibilities. Never permit me to disgrace it by giving way to coldness, unkindness or impatience…. Lord, increase my faith, bless my efforts and work, now and forevermore. Amen.
Have a good Friday in your labors. And, may your weekend be filled with divine grace notes that refresh and restore your soul.
--Ben Keckler
06.27.08
Editor’s note: Mr. Keckler serves as a hospital Director of Chaplaincy in the greater Indianapolis area.
“A person can do nothing better than to eat and drink
and find great satisfaction in their work.
This too, I see, is from the hand of God for without him who can find enjoyment.”
--A wisdom saying Ecclesiastes
Chapter 2:24, 25
One of the daily prayers that Mother Teresa used as she delivered her care to children in India seems most appropriate for the work we do in this place.
Dearest Lord, may I see you today and every day in the person of your sick, and, while nursing them, minister unto you. Though you hide yourself behind the unattractive disguise of the irritable, the exacting and the unreasonable, may I be still long enough to recognize you in them…. Sweetest Lord, make me appreciative of the dignity of my vocation and it’s many responsibilities. Never permit me to disgrace it by giving way to coldness, unkindness or impatience…. Lord, increase my faith, bless my efforts and work, now and forevermore. Amen.
Have a good Friday in your labors. And, may your weekend be filled with divine grace notes that refresh and restore your soul.
--Ben Keckler
06.27.08
Editor’s note: Mr. Keckler serves as a hospital Director of Chaplaincy in the greater Indianapolis area.
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Daily Devotions - Thursday, May 26
Act with Mercy
“Let love and faithfulness never leave you;
bind them around your neck,
write them on the tablet of your heart.”
--A wisdom saying from the Proverbs
Chapter 3:3
One day Mother Teresa was writing a letter to her fellow laborers in Calcutta, the Missionaries of Charity and their Co-Workers. Her goal was to inspire the workers as they performed their acts of mercy with people in need. She quoted from one of Cardinal Newman’s prayers and added her own thoughts. Pray with me today:
“Help me to spread thy fragrance everywhere I go—
let me preach thee without preaching, not by words but by example—
by the catching force;
let the sympathetic influence of what I do
be evidence of the full love my heart feels to thee.” (Newman)
She then continued saying, “Our works of love are nothing but works of peace. Let us do them with greater love and efficiency—each in her or his daily work both in your home and with your neighbor. Listen to the cry: I was hungry – not only for food, but for peace that comes from a pure heart; I was thirsty – not for water, but for peace that satiates the passionate thirst of passion for war; I was naked – not for clothes, but for that beautiful dignity of people for their bodies; I was homeless – not for a shelter made of bricks, but for a heart that understands, that covers, that loves.”
A prayer: God, may I act with mercy today. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
06.26.08
“Let love and faithfulness never leave you;
bind them around your neck,
write them on the tablet of your heart.”
--A wisdom saying from the Proverbs
Chapter 3:3
One day Mother Teresa was writing a letter to her fellow laborers in Calcutta, the Missionaries of Charity and their Co-Workers. Her goal was to inspire the workers as they performed their acts of mercy with people in need. She quoted from one of Cardinal Newman’s prayers and added her own thoughts. Pray with me today:
“Help me to spread thy fragrance everywhere I go—
let me preach thee without preaching, not by words but by example—
by the catching force;
let the sympathetic influence of what I do
be evidence of the full love my heart feels to thee.” (Newman)
She then continued saying, “Our works of love are nothing but works of peace. Let us do them with greater love and efficiency—each in her or his daily work both in your home and with your neighbor. Listen to the cry: I was hungry – not only for food, but for peace that comes from a pure heart; I was thirsty – not for water, but for peace that satiates the passionate thirst of passion for war; I was naked – not for clothes, but for that beautiful dignity of people for their bodies; I was homeless – not for a shelter made of bricks, but for a heart that understands, that covers, that loves.”
A prayer: God, may I act with mercy today. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
06.26.08
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
Daily Devotions - Wednesday, June 25
Grace of God through New Friends
“May God be gracious to us and bless us,
may the face of the Lord shine upon us
and all the ends of the earth will honor our God.”
--From a Psalm of God’s people,
Chapter 67, selected verses
God’s grace comes to us in a variety of ways. As new opportunities come our way, we gain new understanding about the awesome nature of God’s holy presence among us. I am finding, enjoying, and learning more about the graciousness of God.
You may have noticed that the face of the Lord is shining these days with new friends in your life – new neighbors or employees, new people on sports teams, at church, new members of organizations. It is important that we help welcome and integrate these folks into our community, at home, at work or at relaxation. As these new folks with their hopes, dreams and goals blend with the “seasoned” group, we all discover God gracing us and blessing us in refreshing ways.
A prayer: Gracious God, continue to bless the work of our hands as we join together with new friends and ideas. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
06.25.08
“May God be gracious to us and bless us,
may the face of the Lord shine upon us
and all the ends of the earth will honor our God.”
--From a Psalm of God’s people,
Chapter 67, selected verses
God’s grace comes to us in a variety of ways. As new opportunities come our way, we gain new understanding about the awesome nature of God’s holy presence among us. I am finding, enjoying, and learning more about the graciousness of God.
You may have noticed that the face of the Lord is shining these days with new friends in your life – new neighbors or employees, new people on sports teams, at church, new members of organizations. It is important that we help welcome and integrate these folks into our community, at home, at work or at relaxation. As these new folks with their hopes, dreams and goals blend with the “seasoned” group, we all discover God gracing us and blessing us in refreshing ways.
A prayer: Gracious God, continue to bless the work of our hands as we join together with new friends and ideas. Amen.
--Ben Keckler
06.25.08
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
Daily Devotions - Tuesday, June 24
Vertical Listening
“God said to Moses,
I AM who I AM.”
--From the life of Moses, Exodus 3: 14
Active listening is an important activity for everyone to practice. Active listeners believe that the words of the other person are more important than their own stories.
It happens horizontally -- by that I mean the listening we do when relating to others, whether they be family members, friends or persons we meet. It also happens vertically. Today I want to encourage us to spend a few moments thinking about the vertical nature of active listening. By that I mean the listening we do as we practice our spirituality, regardless of our religious background.
When Moses heard the words, “I AM who I AM,” he probably spent the rest of his life struggling with understanding the fullness of those words. Active listening to divine leading can empower us in the tasks and routines of the day. Just this morning I wanted to grab a CD to listen to on the way to work. I grabbed one but, after taking a couple of steps, was compelled to go back and pick up a different one. While listening to this a capella group, my pager went off and I called the hospital. As I listened (horizontally) to the staff person, I realized that I had received a vertical prompting in my choice of CD for the morning. Coincidence? Listening to my gut? Maybe. I am comfortable if you want to view it as that and trust that you can be comfortable with my spiritual interpretation of the happenings.
To take time with the great “I AM,” to actively listen to the inner prompting and to respond without needing all the answers, is what vertical listening is all about. Henri Nouwen writes these words about our horizontal and vertical listening: “As long as we live on this earth, our lives will be marked by compassion.” Enjoy listening to the great “I AM.”
--Ben Keckler
06.24.08
“God said to Moses,
I AM who I AM.”
--From the life of Moses, Exodus 3: 14
Active listening is an important activity for everyone to practice. Active listeners believe that the words of the other person are more important than their own stories.
It happens horizontally -- by that I mean the listening we do when relating to others, whether they be family members, friends or persons we meet. It also happens vertically. Today I want to encourage us to spend a few moments thinking about the vertical nature of active listening. By that I mean the listening we do as we practice our spirituality, regardless of our religious background.
When Moses heard the words, “I AM who I AM,” he probably spent the rest of his life struggling with understanding the fullness of those words. Active listening to divine leading can empower us in the tasks and routines of the day. Just this morning I wanted to grab a CD to listen to on the way to work. I grabbed one but, after taking a couple of steps, was compelled to go back and pick up a different one. While listening to this a capella group, my pager went off and I called the hospital. As I listened (horizontally) to the staff person, I realized that I had received a vertical prompting in my choice of CD for the morning. Coincidence? Listening to my gut? Maybe. I am comfortable if you want to view it as that and trust that you can be comfortable with my spiritual interpretation of the happenings.
To take time with the great “I AM,” to actively listen to the inner prompting and to respond without needing all the answers, is what vertical listening is all about. Henri Nouwen writes these words about our horizontal and vertical listening: “As long as we live on this earth, our lives will be marked by compassion.” Enjoy listening to the great “I AM.”
--Ben Keckler
06.24.08
Monday, June 23, 2008
Daily Devotions - Monday, June 23
Feeling at Home
“So do not fear, for I am with you;
do not be dismayed, for I am your God.”
--From the prophet Isaiah, 41:10
The word of the Lord to Isaiah, and all the people of God in general, bids us to have no fear. Fear visits us when we are caught in unexpected situations, in unfamiliar places and it can cause us to make inaccurate assessments. It is good to remember that patients, families and friends who come to a hospital can feel terribly intimidated and overwhelmed. Fear can dominate their inner being. Active listening to the feelings of those who are visiting us is very important, almost a prerequisite for quality caregiving. We are at ease in this place because we labor here, but others may not be. Here is a story that illustrates the fears people may have and the way a caregiver lessened the fear:
A lady came to the hospital to visit a friend. She had not been in a hospital for several years. She felt uneasy and a bit overwhelmed by all the new technology. A technician followed her onto the elevator, wheeling a large, intimidating looking machine with tubes and wires and dials. “Boy, would I hate to be hooked up to that
thing,” she said. “So would I,” said the technician. “It’s a floor-cleaning machine.”
Be aware that our “at home-ness” with this place may not be the same “at home-ness” of those who visit us. Have a good week in our home away from home.
--Ben Keckler
06.23.08
Editor’s note: Mr. Keckler serves as a hospital Director of Chaplaincy in the greater Indianapolis area.
“So do not fear, for I am with you;
do not be dismayed, for I am your God.”
--From the prophet Isaiah, 41:10
The word of the Lord to Isaiah, and all the people of God in general, bids us to have no fear. Fear visits us when we are caught in unexpected situations, in unfamiliar places and it can cause us to make inaccurate assessments. It is good to remember that patients, families and friends who come to a hospital can feel terribly intimidated and overwhelmed. Fear can dominate their inner being. Active listening to the feelings of those who are visiting us is very important, almost a prerequisite for quality caregiving. We are at ease in this place because we labor here, but others may not be. Here is a story that illustrates the fears people may have and the way a caregiver lessened the fear:
A lady came to the hospital to visit a friend. She had not been in a hospital for several years. She felt uneasy and a bit overwhelmed by all the new technology. A technician followed her onto the elevator, wheeling a large, intimidating looking machine with tubes and wires and dials. “Boy, would I hate to be hooked up to that
thing,” she said. “So would I,” said the technician. “It’s a floor-cleaning machine.”
Be aware that our “at home-ness” with this place may not be the same “at home-ness” of those who visit us. Have a good week in our home away from home.
--Ben Keckler
06.23.08
Editor’s note: Mr. Keckler serves as a hospital Director of Chaplaincy in the greater Indianapolis area.
Friday, June 20, 2008
Daily Devotions - Friday, June 20
Meaning in Your Life
“Make a joyful noise to God, all the earth;
sing the glory of God’s name, give glorious praise to the Lord.”
--From the hymns of the Hebrew people, Psalm 66
Listening to the stories of others and reading the insights that others have gained from their lives can be very inspiring. The resilience of people is probably a reason behind the verse of Scripture for today. Here is a snippet from the life of Viktor Frankl, imprisoned in a concentration camp during World War II.
One winter morning the prisoners were marching despite the horrible conditions. They were cold, weak and depressed. The man beside Frankl said, “If only our wives could see us now.” Frankl began to imagine his wife who happened to be imprisoned in another concentration camp. He pictured her smiling. He felt her encouraging him to go on. He experienced in a deeper way than ever her love for him and his for her. Later Frankl observed that he survived those horrible conditions because of his hope they’d be reunited. His wife actually died in the concentration camp and they were never united. One of his valuable insights is this statement:
“To live is to suffer. To survive is to find meaning in the suffering.”
When something is really important to you, it gives you a reason to make joyful noises to God and it gives your life meaning. As we approach the coming weekend, look for the meaning in each of your experiences. You may find yourself making a joyful noise to the Lord. Hope you have a wonderful weekend-- make some noise!
--Ben Keckler
06.20.08
“Make a joyful noise to God, all the earth;
sing the glory of God’s name, give glorious praise to the Lord.”
--From the hymns of the Hebrew people, Psalm 66
Listening to the stories of others and reading the insights that others have gained from their lives can be very inspiring. The resilience of people is probably a reason behind the verse of Scripture for today. Here is a snippet from the life of Viktor Frankl, imprisoned in a concentration camp during World War II.
One winter morning the prisoners were marching despite the horrible conditions. They were cold, weak and depressed. The man beside Frankl said, “If only our wives could see us now.” Frankl began to imagine his wife who happened to be imprisoned in another concentration camp. He pictured her smiling. He felt her encouraging him to go on. He experienced in a deeper way than ever her love for him and his for her. Later Frankl observed that he survived those horrible conditions because of his hope they’d be reunited. His wife actually died in the concentration camp and they were never united. One of his valuable insights is this statement:
“To live is to suffer. To survive is to find meaning in the suffering.”
When something is really important to you, it gives you a reason to make joyful noises to God and it gives your life meaning. As we approach the coming weekend, look for the meaning in each of your experiences. You may find yourself making a joyful noise to the Lord. Hope you have a wonderful weekend-- make some noise!
--Ben Keckler
06.20.08
Thursday, June 19, 2008
Daily Devotions - Thursday, June 19
How can I help?
“So these three men stopped answering Job,
because he was righteous in his own eyes.
But Elihu, son of Barakel, became very angry with Job
for justifying himself rather than God.”
--From the story of Job, chapter 32
The story of Job in the sacred writings of Scripture is a great story! It is a story of a person who loses everything and a story of friends who try to offer help. We’ve picked up the story at the point where Job’s friends are really ticked off. They have been trying to offer insights to help Job understand his grief from their belief system about God. This old story could have happened yesterday. This old story could happen tomorrow. There is a book we have in the chaplaincy library, How Can I Help?, written by a good friend of mine. Jim Miller offers 12 things that we can do when someone we know suffers a loss. Think about this list when you have friends that are dealing with losses:
1. Acknowledge what has happened.
2. Listen. Listen. Listen.
3. Respond in your own authentic way; avoid using clichés.
4. Accept the other as he or she is.
5. Offer to help, and make your offers specific.
6. Allow the other her or his privacy.
7. Relate to the other as a whole person.
8. Trust the other to lead you.
9. Radiate genuine hope.
10. Carry the other in your heart and soul.
11. Journey with the other in the search for meaning.
12. Open yourself to what this experience holds just for you.
Following these guidelines is challenging, but rewarding. Jim concludes with this observation: “It’s likely you’ll become not just wiser but gentler, not just more forgiving but more loving. Ultimately, you’ll become not just a better listener but a better friend, not just a better caregiver but a better human being. And that’s not a bad trade-off.”
--Ben Keckler
06.19.08
“So these three men stopped answering Job,
because he was righteous in his own eyes.
But Elihu, son of Barakel, became very angry with Job
for justifying himself rather than God.”
--From the story of Job, chapter 32
The story of Job in the sacred writings of Scripture is a great story! It is a story of a person who loses everything and a story of friends who try to offer help. We’ve picked up the story at the point where Job’s friends are really ticked off. They have been trying to offer insights to help Job understand his grief from their belief system about God. This old story could have happened yesterday. This old story could happen tomorrow. There is a book we have in the chaplaincy library, How Can I Help?, written by a good friend of mine. Jim Miller offers 12 things that we can do when someone we know suffers a loss. Think about this list when you have friends that are dealing with losses:
1. Acknowledge what has happened.
2. Listen. Listen. Listen.
3. Respond in your own authentic way; avoid using clichés.
4. Accept the other as he or she is.
5. Offer to help, and make your offers specific.
6. Allow the other her or his privacy.
7. Relate to the other as a whole person.
8. Trust the other to lead you.
9. Radiate genuine hope.
10. Carry the other in your heart and soul.
11. Journey with the other in the search for meaning.
12. Open yourself to what this experience holds just for you.
Following these guidelines is challenging, but rewarding. Jim concludes with this observation: “It’s likely you’ll become not just wiser but gentler, not just more forgiving but more loving. Ultimately, you’ll become not just a better listener but a better friend, not just a better caregiver but a better human being. And that’s not a bad trade-off.”
--Ben Keckler
06.19.08
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
Daily Devotions - Wednesday, June 18
Giving of Oneself
“Where you go I will go,
where you stay I will stay.
Your people will be my people and
your God my God. ”
--Ruth’s words to her mother-in-law, Ruth 1
The old, old story of Ruth and her allegiance to her mother-in-law is one of the wonderful stories about unconditional love. The work we do can be a job, but I would hope that it is more than that. I would like to believe that we do our work because we want to make certain that people receive the best of what they need in moments of “dis-ease.” The act of self-giving to another probably finds its deepest meaning in marriage, but it can be found as we engage ourselves within the workplace, too!
For example, taking time to make certain a building is cared for internally and externally is an important task and can be far more than just a job. Frederick Buechner says it this way:
“By all the laws both of logic and simple arithmetic, to give yourself away in love to another (someone/something beyond self) would seem to mean that you end up with less of yourself left than you had to begin with. But the miracle is that just the reverse is true, logic and arithmetic go hang! To live not just for yourself alone but for something beyond yourself is a new way to come fully alive.”
May today be something more than work. May your day be filled with opportunities to give yourself and, in the process of giving, become more fully alive!
Ben Keckler
06.18.08
Editor’s note: Mr. Keckler serves as a hospital Director of Chaplaincy in the greater Indianapolis area.
“Where you go I will go,
where you stay I will stay.
Your people will be my people and
your God my God. ”
--Ruth’s words to her mother-in-law, Ruth 1
The old, old story of Ruth and her allegiance to her mother-in-law is one of the wonderful stories about unconditional love. The work we do can be a job, but I would hope that it is more than that. I would like to believe that we do our work because we want to make certain that people receive the best of what they need in moments of “dis-ease.” The act of self-giving to another probably finds its deepest meaning in marriage, but it can be found as we engage ourselves within the workplace, too!
For example, taking time to make certain a building is cared for internally and externally is an important task and can be far more than just a job. Frederick Buechner says it this way:
“By all the laws both of logic and simple arithmetic, to give yourself away in love to another (someone/something beyond self) would seem to mean that you end up with less of yourself left than you had to begin with. But the miracle is that just the reverse is true, logic and arithmetic go hang! To live not just for yourself alone but for something beyond yourself is a new way to come fully alive.”
May today be something more than work. May your day be filled with opportunities to give yourself and, in the process of giving, become more fully alive!
Ben Keckler
06.18.08
Editor’s note: Mr. Keckler serves as a hospital Director of Chaplaincy in the greater Indianapolis area.
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Daily Devotions - Tuesday, June 17
Slowing Down with Mother Earth
“The earth is the Lord’s and all that is in it,
the world, and those who live in it.”
--Verses from a Hebrew hymn, Psalm 24
This ancient hymn speaks of the beauty of this earth. For centuries faith stories have been linked to the soil. While agrarian society disappears around us and new houses spring up where corn stalks were knee-high, many folks continue to have a little plot for playing in the soil. Recently while visiting with a patient and family, a family member mentioned about tomatoes that were starting to appear on backyard vines.
Spending time each day observing nature and moving the soil can remind us that we are part of a much larger universe. Chief Luther Standing Bear, a Lakota Sioux, offers this observation:
“The old people came literally to love the soil.
They sat on the ground with the feeling of being close to a mothering power.
It was good for the skin to touch the earth,
And the old people liked to remove their moccasins
And walk with their bare feet on the sacred earth.
The soil was soothing, strengthening, cleansing, and healing.”
When your day ends, take some time with the soil, even if it is just spreading a blanket on the ground and gazing at white clouds against the blue backdrop of the sky. Practicing simple methods of “slowing down” with Mother Earth can be soothing, strengthening, cleansing, and healing.
Ben Keckler
06.17.08
PS: A good friend once told me that, if it is raining, there is nothing better than going barefoot and feeling the mud squish between your toes.
“The earth is the Lord’s and all that is in it,
the world, and those who live in it.”
--Verses from a Hebrew hymn, Psalm 24
This ancient hymn speaks of the beauty of this earth. For centuries faith stories have been linked to the soil. While agrarian society disappears around us and new houses spring up where corn stalks were knee-high, many folks continue to have a little plot for playing in the soil. Recently while visiting with a patient and family, a family member mentioned about tomatoes that were starting to appear on backyard vines.
Spending time each day observing nature and moving the soil can remind us that we are part of a much larger universe. Chief Luther Standing Bear, a Lakota Sioux, offers this observation:
“The old people came literally to love the soil.
They sat on the ground with the feeling of being close to a mothering power.
It was good for the skin to touch the earth,
And the old people liked to remove their moccasins
And walk with their bare feet on the sacred earth.
The soil was soothing, strengthening, cleansing, and healing.”
When your day ends, take some time with the soil, even if it is just spreading a blanket on the ground and gazing at white clouds against the blue backdrop of the sky. Practicing simple methods of “slowing down” with Mother Earth can be soothing, strengthening, cleansing, and healing.
Ben Keckler
06.17.08
PS: A good friend once told me that, if it is raining, there is nothing better than going barefoot and feeling the mud squish between your toes.
Monday, June 16, 2008
Daily Devotion - Monday, June 16
Our Brokenness
“With my voice I cry to the Lord;
I pour out my complaint before him and tell my trouble before him.
Bring me out of my prison so that I may give thanks to Your Holy name!”
--Verses from a Hebrew hymn, Psalm 142
Each of us has had or will have experiences that really crush us and tear us apart. The Psalmist talks about the feeling, we might want to call it “broken”. One of the helpful spiritual teachers of recent times, Henri Nouwen, gives these insights about how we can view our times when everything feels shattered:
“The great spiritual call to the children of God is to pull their brokenness away from the shadow of the curse and put it under the light of the blessing. This is not as easy as it sounds. Our world finds it easier to manipulate self-rejecting people than self-accepting people. But when we keep listening attentively to the voice calling us the“Beloved children of God” it becomes possible to live our brokenness, as an opportunity to purify the blessing that rests upon us. Physical, mental or emotional pain lived under the blessing is experienced in ways radically different from physical, mental or emotional pain lived under the curse.”
--(page 79, Life of the Beloved)
The way that life unfolds will continue to present us moments when we will feel broken. In those moments remember that, through it all, you are a “Beloved child of God.” May your day be blessed.
Ben Keckler
06.16.08
“With my voice I cry to the Lord;
I pour out my complaint before him and tell my trouble before him.
Bring me out of my prison so that I may give thanks to Your Holy name!”
--Verses from a Hebrew hymn, Psalm 142
Each of us has had or will have experiences that really crush us and tear us apart. The Psalmist talks about the feeling, we might want to call it “broken”. One of the helpful spiritual teachers of recent times, Henri Nouwen, gives these insights about how we can view our times when everything feels shattered:
“The great spiritual call to the children of God is to pull their brokenness away from the shadow of the curse and put it under the light of the blessing. This is not as easy as it sounds. Our world finds it easier to manipulate self-rejecting people than self-accepting people. But when we keep listening attentively to the voice calling us the“Beloved children of God” it becomes possible to live our brokenness, as an opportunity to purify the blessing that rests upon us. Physical, mental or emotional pain lived under the blessing is experienced in ways radically different from physical, mental or emotional pain lived under the curse.”
--(page 79, Life of the Beloved)
The way that life unfolds will continue to present us moments when we will feel broken. In those moments remember that, through it all, you are a “Beloved child of God.” May your day be blessed.
Ben Keckler
06.16.08
Friday, June 13, 2008
Daily Devotions - Friday, June 13
Waving Old Glory
A reading for today: Romans 13: 1-7
I pledge allegiance to the flag
of the United States of America
and to the Republic for which it stands,
one nation under God, indivisible,
with liberty and justice for all.
--Revised pledge, original pledge written in 1892 by Francis Bellamy
Tomorrow is Flag Day. Millions of Americans, including this chaplain, can acknowledge strong emotions about our flag. Many of us fly our flag in the morning and take it in at night, others have opted to light their flag and fly it boldly day and night (even if it means a few cents more on the electric bill).
Flags are important in uniting groups of people. Citizens who carry similarly strong emotions that we do inhabit each and every country of the world. Whenever we gather for the summer or winter Olympics, we witness this truth as the national anthem of the country is played while the flag is raised and tears of joy and pride well up in the gold medalist's eyes.
Our pledge to our flag contains a powerful phrase “with liberty and justice for all.” This is a phrase worthy of some sincere reflection. It is a phrase that sounds pretty inclusive. It is a phrase that deserves continued dialogue and discussion. Clearly, there are many struggles ahead for all of this global village, a world filled with many patriotic people in every country.
Give thanks today for this land and for our old red, white and blue. May we each do our part to bring liberty and justice for all.
A prayer for today: God of the nations, thank you for the blessings we enjoy. Amen.
Ben Keckler
06.13.08
A reading for today: Romans 13: 1-7
I pledge allegiance to the flag
of the United States of America
and to the Republic for which it stands,
one nation under God, indivisible,
with liberty and justice for all.
--Revised pledge, original pledge written in 1892 by Francis Bellamy
Tomorrow is Flag Day. Millions of Americans, including this chaplain, can acknowledge strong emotions about our flag. Many of us fly our flag in the morning and take it in at night, others have opted to light their flag and fly it boldly day and night (even if it means a few cents more on the electric bill).
Flags are important in uniting groups of people. Citizens who carry similarly strong emotions that we do inhabit each and every country of the world. Whenever we gather for the summer or winter Olympics, we witness this truth as the national anthem of the country is played while the flag is raised and tears of joy and pride well up in the gold medalist's eyes.
Our pledge to our flag contains a powerful phrase “with liberty and justice for all.” This is a phrase worthy of some sincere reflection. It is a phrase that sounds pretty inclusive. It is a phrase that deserves continued dialogue and discussion. Clearly, there are many struggles ahead for all of this global village, a world filled with many patriotic people in every country.
Give thanks today for this land and for our old red, white and blue. May we each do our part to bring liberty and justice for all.
A prayer for today: God of the nations, thank you for the blessings we enjoy. Amen.
Ben Keckler
06.13.08
Thursday, June 12, 2008
Daily Devotions - Thursday, June 12
Discovery or Rediscovery?
“Unless you change and become like children,
you will never understand the kingdom of God.”
--From Matthew’s gospel (18:3)
It’s Thursday and I think it would be good to spend a couple of minutes with Morrie Schwartz and Mitch Albom. Recently I was a part of a big book signing event in which Mitch was a featured author; it was a fun day! Today, an excerpt from Tuesday’s With Morrie. Meditate on these words that a dying Morrie Schwartz shares with us through Mitch:
“Mitch, it’s funny,” Morrie said. “I’m an independent person,
so my inclination was to fight being dependent on others. I felt a little ashamed; because our culture tells us we should be ashamed if we are dependent. Forget what culture says…
We all yearn in some way to return to those days
when we were completely taken care of – unconditional love,
unconditional attention. Most of us didn’t get enough.”
Discovering the dependent part of our lives is important. Naming it, claiming it and allowing the “child within” to be loved and nurtured is a good thing. When we are “at home” with dependency, when we can enjoy it, then we can find ourselves nearer to the kingdom of God.
A prayer for today: In my quest for independence, help me to claim my total dependence on you, O God. Amen.
Ben Keckler
06.12.08
“Unless you change and become like children,
you will never understand the kingdom of God.”
--From Matthew’s gospel (18:3)
It’s Thursday and I think it would be good to spend a couple of minutes with Morrie Schwartz and Mitch Albom. Recently I was a part of a big book signing event in which Mitch was a featured author; it was a fun day! Today, an excerpt from Tuesday’s With Morrie. Meditate on these words that a dying Morrie Schwartz shares with us through Mitch:
“Mitch, it’s funny,” Morrie said. “I’m an independent person,
so my inclination was to fight being dependent on others. I felt a little ashamed; because our culture tells us we should be ashamed if we are dependent. Forget what culture says…
We all yearn in some way to return to those days
when we were completely taken care of – unconditional love,
unconditional attention. Most of us didn’t get enough.”
Discovering the dependent part of our lives is important. Naming it, claiming it and allowing the “child within” to be loved and nurtured is a good thing. When we are “at home” with dependency, when we can enjoy it, then we can find ourselves nearer to the kingdom of God.
A prayer for today: In my quest for independence, help me to claim my total dependence on you, O God. Amen.
Ben Keckler
06.12.08
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
Daily Devotions - Wednesday, June 11
Prayer of Thanks
“Blessed be the Lord, my rock …
may our barns be filled with produce of every kind…
happy are the people to whom such blessings fall.”
--Verses from a Hebrew hymn, Psalm 144
Often this devotional mailing focuses on the centrality of prayer in our lives. Many of us begin to look forward on Wednesday to a weekend where the pace of life is different than the week, to a cookout or to celebrating a special day. Often the gathering includes a meal and so today we offer a prayer for those who provide for us.
In the midst of our plenty, O God,
Recall our debt to those who garner our food for us…
those who pluck pineapples in the blaze of noon,
those who buck the seas in search of fish,
those who tend sheep and cattle through all the tantrums of weather,
those who plow, and sow, and cultivate, and then wait in hope.
Teach us that we live
because others have fished and farmed and shepherded.
Accept our thanks for those who care for creation
and turn it into provisions for our festivities.
Ben Keckler
06.11.08
“Blessed be the Lord, my rock …
may our barns be filled with produce of every kind…
happy are the people to whom such blessings fall.”
--Verses from a Hebrew hymn, Psalm 144
Often this devotional mailing focuses on the centrality of prayer in our lives. Many of us begin to look forward on Wednesday to a weekend where the pace of life is different than the week, to a cookout or to celebrating a special day. Often the gathering includes a meal and so today we offer a prayer for those who provide for us.
In the midst of our plenty, O God,
Recall our debt to those who garner our food for us…
those who pluck pineapples in the blaze of noon,
those who buck the seas in search of fish,
those who tend sheep and cattle through all the tantrums of weather,
those who plow, and sow, and cultivate, and then wait in hope.
Teach us that we live
because others have fished and farmed and shepherded.
Accept our thanks for those who care for creation
and turn it into provisions for our festivities.
Ben Keckler
06.11.08
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Daily Devotions - Tuesday, June 10
Prayer for Healing
“Have mercy on us, O Lord, have mercy upon us,
for we have had more than enough.”
--Verses from a Hebrew hymn, Psalm 123
Often this devotional mailing focuses on the centrality of prayer in our lives. Today, a prayer for healing:
God of all,
You have created within us and among us the potential
To repair the imperfect and give at least a semblance of wholeness
When we are broken.
You have given us the insight to transform simple herbs
Into healing balms for the body.
You have given us the opportunity to transform the herb of caring
Into a healing balm for aching souls.
We are like the many that long for healing—
We yearn for fulfillment, purpose, meaning, and health.
As we live the caregiving life, help us to bring fulfillment to others.
In helping bring others to a better place,
May we recognize the strength, the dedication and the commitment
That You are instilling within us as Your created people.
And as we serve,
Draw us into deeper unity with You and each other.
Ben Keckler
06.10.08
Editor’s note: Mr. Keckler serves as a hospital Director of Chaplaincy in the greater Indianapolis area.
“Have mercy on us, O Lord, have mercy upon us,
for we have had more than enough.”
--Verses from a Hebrew hymn, Psalm 123
Often this devotional mailing focuses on the centrality of prayer in our lives. Today, a prayer for healing:
God of all,
You have created within us and among us the potential
To repair the imperfect and give at least a semblance of wholeness
When we are broken.
You have given us the insight to transform simple herbs
Into healing balms for the body.
You have given us the opportunity to transform the herb of caring
Into a healing balm for aching souls.
We are like the many that long for healing—
We yearn for fulfillment, purpose, meaning, and health.
As we live the caregiving life, help us to bring fulfillment to others.
In helping bring others to a better place,
May we recognize the strength, the dedication and the commitment
That You are instilling within us as Your created people.
And as we serve,
Draw us into deeper unity with You and each other.
Ben Keckler
06.10.08
Editor’s note: Mr. Keckler serves as a hospital Director of Chaplaincy in the greater Indianapolis area.
Monday, June 9, 2008
Daily Devotions - Monday, June 9
Prayer for Your Journey
“Out of the depths I call to you.
O God, hear my voice!
I wait for the Holy One.
My soul waits, and in God’s word I hope.”
--Verses from a Hebrew hymn, Psalm 130
Often this devotional mailing focuses on the centrality of prayer in our lives. A general prayer for your journey today:
God of love, we are wayfarers in the world,
we are prone to erratic changes of course, to losing sight of our goals,
to becoming so discouraged by the journey that we hitch a ride on anything that comes along.
Help us on our way, O God.
If we change our course, let it be not in self-interest, but in a desire to share—
to share your gentleness and love with another who is also on their journey through this maze.
If we lose sight of our goals,
let our quest arouse within us new curiosities as we continue our honest search of faith.
If we become weary and discouraged and forget you are with us,
let it lead to a recognition of our need for waiting on you.
As we travel in a world that sometimes seems a trackless, hostile wilderness,
let your Spirit sustain, encourage, and enable us to go on
with confident assurance that our Creator has walked this walk before us.
Have a wonderful week!
Ben Keckler
06.09.08
“Out of the depths I call to you.
O God, hear my voice!
I wait for the Holy One.
My soul waits, and in God’s word I hope.”
--Verses from a Hebrew hymn, Psalm 130
Often this devotional mailing focuses on the centrality of prayer in our lives. A general prayer for your journey today:
God of love, we are wayfarers in the world,
we are prone to erratic changes of course, to losing sight of our goals,
to becoming so discouraged by the journey that we hitch a ride on anything that comes along.
Help us on our way, O God.
If we change our course, let it be not in self-interest, but in a desire to share—
to share your gentleness and love with another who is also on their journey through this maze.
If we lose sight of our goals,
let our quest arouse within us new curiosities as we continue our honest search of faith.
If we become weary and discouraged and forget you are with us,
let it lead to a recognition of our need for waiting on you.
As we travel in a world that sometimes seems a trackless, hostile wilderness,
let your Spirit sustain, encourage, and enable us to go on
with confident assurance that our Creator has walked this walk before us.
Have a wonderful week!
Ben Keckler
06.09.08
Friday, June 6, 2008
Daily Devotions - Friday, June 6
Caregiving in Action!
Here in Central Indiana most communities have had or are about to have their Relays for Life, a 24 hour event held in behalf of the work done by the American Cancer Society. I hope you have taken time to participate in a Relay for Life. None of us know if or when cancer might have a direct impact on our life. Personally, I know the effects of cancer in my own family and weekly I encounter people who are dealing with the chaos of cancer.
This week we've focused on caregiving. I hope that you would consider participation in a Relay for Life as a way that you can practice caregiving in a concentrated 24 hour time frame, a time frame filled with exercise, joy, tears, celebration, grief and hope; hope that, by making a strong commitment to caregiving in action, cancers of every kind will have a cure.
To all of you who have spent time in Relays for Life this year, let me personally say THANK YOU! To you who will take this challenge as something to integrate into your 2009 commitments, GOD BLESS YOU!
Caregiving in Action, that is the opportunity we have before us!
Ben Keckler
Here in Central Indiana most communities have had or are about to have their Relays for Life, a 24 hour event held in behalf of the work done by the American Cancer Society. I hope you have taken time to participate in a Relay for Life. None of us know if or when cancer might have a direct impact on our life. Personally, I know the effects of cancer in my own family and weekly I encounter people who are dealing with the chaos of cancer.
This week we've focused on caregiving. I hope that you would consider participation in a Relay for Life as a way that you can practice caregiving in a concentrated 24 hour time frame, a time frame filled with exercise, joy, tears, celebration, grief and hope; hope that, by making a strong commitment to caregiving in action, cancers of every kind will have a cure.
To all of you who have spent time in Relays for Life this year, let me personally say THANK YOU! To you who will take this challenge as something to integrate into your 2009 commitments, GOD BLESS YOU!
Caregiving in Action, that is the opportunity we have before us!
Ben Keckler
Thursday, June 5, 2008
Daily Devotions - Thursday, June 5
The Practice of Caregiving!
A reading for today: 1 Corinthians 13: 13
“I believe in people who care.
If these souls did not perform their roles in the way they do,
Then in a very real sense the Word would not be made flesh.
The Love would not be made visible
And the Hope would not be made genuine.
Yet because such committed caregivers are among us,
We know the world is not just a better place
But ours is a better time and we are a better people.
We know that because those who truly care show us,
Day after day after day.”
--James Miller
Today’s devotional thought focuses on the concluding words from Jim Miller’s “Affirmation of Those Who Care”. Jim is a Christian minister and so he talks about the Word being made flesh. That is comfortable language, understandable language for Christians. To broaden the statement to a wider theological perspective, his statement could be paraphrased,
“If caregivers did not perform their roles in the way they do,
then in a very real sense God would not touch the lives of humanity.”
The statement may seem a bit bold and it may cause a bit of doctrinal controversy, but it is a statement worthy of some sincere reflection. The compassion that you demonstrate is important. Compassionate words, thoughts and deeds are the very things that make for better times in the lives of patients, families and all humanity.
Have an even better day in caregiving!
A prayer for today: God of this day, grace me with sensitivity as I perform my duties.
Ben Keckler
06.05.08
Editor’s note: Mr. Keckler serves as a hospital Director of Chaplaincy in the greater Indianapolis area.
A reading for today: 1 Corinthians 13: 13
“I believe in people who care.
If these souls did not perform their roles in the way they do,
Then in a very real sense the Word would not be made flesh.
The Love would not be made visible
And the Hope would not be made genuine.
Yet because such committed caregivers are among us,
We know the world is not just a better place
But ours is a better time and we are a better people.
We know that because those who truly care show us,
Day after day after day.”
--James Miller
Today’s devotional thought focuses on the concluding words from Jim Miller’s “Affirmation of Those Who Care”. Jim is a Christian minister and so he talks about the Word being made flesh. That is comfortable language, understandable language for Christians. To broaden the statement to a wider theological perspective, his statement could be paraphrased,
“If caregivers did not perform their roles in the way they do,
then in a very real sense God would not touch the lives of humanity.”
The statement may seem a bit bold and it may cause a bit of doctrinal controversy, but it is a statement worthy of some sincere reflection. The compassion that you demonstrate is important. Compassionate words, thoughts and deeds are the very things that make for better times in the lives of patients, families and all humanity.
Have an even better day in caregiving!
A prayer for today: God of this day, grace me with sensitivity as I perform my duties.
Ben Keckler
06.05.08
Editor’s note: Mr. Keckler serves as a hospital Director of Chaplaincy in the greater Indianapolis area.
Wednesday, June 4, 2008
Daily Devotions - Wednesday, June 4
The Practice of Caregiving!
A reading for today: Luke 5: 17-26
“I believe in people who care.
What these empathetic people do requires real courage,
For they do not know how they will be received,
Or if they will be understood.
What they give requires great perseverance,
For healing is a time-consuming process,
And staying with others in their pain
Is an energy-draining experience.”
--James Miller
We continue to focus on Jim Miller’s, “An Affirmation of Those Who Care”. Today we view an interesting passage of Sacred Scripture and, as we do, pay particular attention to the men who were presenting their friend for healing.
Courage is present each time we enter the room, the space of another. Courage because we choose to be available without knowing the exact need. Courage because our presence could feel like an invasion of privacy. Courage because we may need to say the difficult word. Courage because we may need to perform a pain producing task. Courage because…………..… The list of ways caregivers demonstrate courage is a long list.
The gift of perseverance is a gift demonstrated many times in many ways by primary and secondary caregivers and also by all sorts of ancillary people. “We will until” is a possible motto for those whose role is caregiving. The Sacred Scripture story demonstrates that. The men, in effect, are saying: “OK, if they won’t let us in the door, we will carry him onto the roof, we’ll cut a hole in the roof, we’ll tie some rope on the handles and we’ll lower him down through the opening.” They were willing to be drained of their energy because the need of their friend was great.
Blessings to you today as you continue the courageous work of caregiving.
A prayer for today: Holy God, grant me courage and the ability to persevere. Amen.
Ben Keckler
06.04.08
Editor’s note: Mr. Keckler serves as a hospital Director of Chaplaincy in the greater Indianapolis area.
A reading for today: Luke 5: 17-26
“I believe in people who care.
What these empathetic people do requires real courage,
For they do not know how they will be received,
Or if they will be understood.
What they give requires great perseverance,
For healing is a time-consuming process,
And staying with others in their pain
Is an energy-draining experience.”
--James Miller
We continue to focus on Jim Miller’s, “An Affirmation of Those Who Care”. Today we view an interesting passage of Sacred Scripture and, as we do, pay particular attention to the men who were presenting their friend for healing.
Courage is present each time we enter the room, the space of another. Courage because we choose to be available without knowing the exact need. Courage because our presence could feel like an invasion of privacy. Courage because we may need to say the difficult word. Courage because we may need to perform a pain producing task. Courage because…………..… The list of ways caregivers demonstrate courage is a long list.
The gift of perseverance is a gift demonstrated many times in many ways by primary and secondary caregivers and also by all sorts of ancillary people. “We will until” is a possible motto for those whose role is caregiving. The Sacred Scripture story demonstrates that. The men, in effect, are saying: “OK, if they won’t let us in the door, we will carry him onto the roof, we’ll cut a hole in the roof, we’ll tie some rope on the handles and we’ll lower him down through the opening.” They were willing to be drained of their energy because the need of their friend was great.
Blessings to you today as you continue the courageous work of caregiving.
A prayer for today: Holy God, grant me courage and the ability to persevere. Amen.
Ben Keckler
06.04.08
Editor’s note: Mr. Keckler serves as a hospital Director of Chaplaincy in the greater Indianapolis area.
Tuesday, June 3, 2008
Daily Devotions - Tuesday, June 3
The Practice of Caregiving!
A reading for today: Luke 7: 36-50
“I believe in people who care.
I believe the work they do
Is both deceptively simple and unusually difficult.
Their task is to offer those who so need it something irreplaceable:
Their own humanness.
They bestow a priceless gift:
Themselves, and the best of themselves.
They approach the other holding out what they have to offer:
Their sensitivity, their belief, their dedication.
They bring into the open what they choose not to hide:
Their woundedness, their honesty, their compassion.”
--James Miller
Today we look at a little more of Jim Miller’s “An Affirmation of Those Who Care”. It is coupled with an illustrative reading from Sacred Scripture, particularly when viewing the woman in the story as the primary caregiver.
Taking time to reflect on both the story and Jim’s affirmation can be helpful in a couple of ways. First, they can help us gain a renewed vision for our work. The demands of daily routine have the potential to drain both our regular and our reserve fuel tank. Second, they can help us get in touch with our inner core. We, who enter this caregiving work and stay in it, do so because something deep within is pushing us to offer our humanness and our compassion to another hurting soul.
Today is another day filled with the opportunity to care. Have a blessed day!
A prayer for today: God of life, bless my caregiving with sensitivity and compassion.
Ben Keckler
06.03.08
Editor’s note: Mr. Keckler serves as a hospital Director of Chaplaincy in the greater Indianapolis area.
A reading for today: Luke 7: 36-50
“I believe in people who care.
I believe the work they do
Is both deceptively simple and unusually difficult.
Their task is to offer those who so need it something irreplaceable:
Their own humanness.
They bestow a priceless gift:
Themselves, and the best of themselves.
They approach the other holding out what they have to offer:
Their sensitivity, their belief, their dedication.
They bring into the open what they choose not to hide:
Their woundedness, their honesty, their compassion.”
--James Miller
Today we look at a little more of Jim Miller’s “An Affirmation of Those Who Care”. It is coupled with an illustrative reading from Sacred Scripture, particularly when viewing the woman in the story as the primary caregiver.
Taking time to reflect on both the story and Jim’s affirmation can be helpful in a couple of ways. First, they can help us gain a renewed vision for our work. The demands of daily routine have the potential to drain both our regular and our reserve fuel tank. Second, they can help us get in touch with our inner core. We, who enter this caregiving work and stay in it, do so because something deep within is pushing us to offer our humanness and our compassion to another hurting soul.
Today is another day filled with the opportunity to care. Have a blessed day!
A prayer for today: God of life, bless my caregiving with sensitivity and compassion.
Ben Keckler
06.03.08
Editor’s note: Mr. Keckler serves as a hospital Director of Chaplaincy in the greater Indianapolis area.
Monday, June 2, 2008
Daily Devotions - Monday, June 2
The Practice of Caregiving!
“I believe in people who care.
Even more, I believe in what these generous people offer others.
They bring caregiving down to its essentials:
They offer not abstract ideas, but personal attention;
Not definitive answers, but reasonable assurance;
not empty platitudes, but authentic hope.”--James Miller
This week (Monday-Thursday) our devotions will focus on a piece, “An Affirmation of Those Who Care” by Jim Miller, a personal friend who has devoted much of his ministry to writing and producing materials for bereavement. Over the course of Jim’s life, he has come in touch with thousands of caregivers. His words offer meaningful insights about the work of caregiving.
Caregiving is all about offering hope—hope springing forth from loving hearts. Recently, while visiting with a patient who happens to be a caregiver in another institution, these words were shared with me: “In the entire time I’ve been here I haven’t experienced one bad shift. Hear me now, not one bad shift.”
The patient went on to share a number of hope-filled statements, attributing the healing process primarily to personal faith and to the care received. As we begin another week of caregiving, may we be empowered as authentic caregivers.
A prayer: God, working in and through me, continually grace my life and help me share authentic hope with others. Amen.
Ben Keckler
06.02.08
Editor’s note: Mr. Keckler serves as a hospital Director of Chaplaincy in the greater Indianapolis area.
“I believe in people who care.
Even more, I believe in what these generous people offer others.
They bring caregiving down to its essentials:
They offer not abstract ideas, but personal attention;
Not definitive answers, but reasonable assurance;
not empty platitudes, but authentic hope.”--James Miller
This week (Monday-Thursday) our devotions will focus on a piece, “An Affirmation of Those Who Care” by Jim Miller, a personal friend who has devoted much of his ministry to writing and producing materials for bereavement. Over the course of Jim’s life, he has come in touch with thousands of caregivers. His words offer meaningful insights about the work of caregiving.
Caregiving is all about offering hope—hope springing forth from loving hearts. Recently, while visiting with a patient who happens to be a caregiver in another institution, these words were shared with me: “In the entire time I’ve been here I haven’t experienced one bad shift. Hear me now, not one bad shift.”
The patient went on to share a number of hope-filled statements, attributing the healing process primarily to personal faith and to the care received. As we begin another week of caregiving, may we be empowered as authentic caregivers.
A prayer: God, working in and through me, continually grace my life and help me share authentic hope with others. Amen.
Ben Keckler
06.02.08
Editor’s note: Mr. Keckler serves as a hospital Director of Chaplaincy in the greater Indianapolis area.
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